Do you like the sound of having your own personal masseuse or masseur? Looking for something new to do with your partner on date night? Giving your partner a sensual massage is a great way to foster intimacy and connect with your partner. Not only will they appreciate the relaxation after a long day, but the act of service itself is a gesture of care. Adding a sensual massage to your toolkit is a skill that will surely impress your lovers.

Don’t worry if you’re no professional, read on to discover how you can give a sensual massage, even as a beginner

1. Set The Scene

When you first enter a spa, what is the first thing you’re met with? Is it the aromatherapy that’s lingering in all the corners of the room? The dim, romantic lighting which instantly calms your nervous system and lets you know that you’re about to experience deep relaxation. Or is it the soft towel and sheets laid out inviting you to lie down? Setting the scene is key for getting your partner prepared for their wind down. When it comes to massage oil, choose calming scents like lavender or amber- unless you know your partner’s preferred scent.

Pro Tip: If you find that you’re out of massage oil, grabbing a bottle of olive oil from the kitchen cabinet is a great solution when you’re in a pinch. Lotion could also get the job done.

2. Communicate

A good point to start is asking your partner if there are any areas they want you to pay special attention to. Also, enquire whether there are any pain points or sensitivities that you need to be mindful of. Keep the lines of communication open with your partner. Encourage them to provide you with feedback so they can guide you throughout the massage. Adjust your actions according to their needs and desires.

3. Start Slow

To begin, ask your partner to lie down on their stomach or back. Approach your partner’s body with soft, fluid strokes, helping them settle into what’s to come. At this stage you are warming up their muscles, watching their reactions and adjusting the pressure of your strokes accordingly. Keep in mind that every person has a different sensitivity threshold. What may seem too light to be effective for you, could be too much pressure for someone else. Remember, this is a sensual massage. The goal is to relax your partner and excite them- this isn’t a deep tissue massage where you’re trying to work out the knots in their back. It’s also important to keep a rhythm to enhance the soothing effects of the massage.

4. Pay Attention To The Erogenous Zones

Since this is a sensual massage, focus on your partner’s erogenous zones, such as the neck, shoulders, back, buttocks, and inner thighs. While maintaining the pressure and rhythm you’ve established, apply the effleurage technique. This involves drawing long, sweeping strokes with the palms of your hands. If your partner can handle the pressure, alternate with the petrissage technique, which involves kneading and rolling movements. For areas where your partner wants extra attention, create friction by using your fingers or palms to apply circular movements. The tapotement technique can also be used for especially tense areas.

Pro Tip: Since this is a sensual massage, feel free to drop a few kisses on your partner’s body here and there.

5. Add Sensory Stimulation

To truly earn five stars, introduce props for extra sensory stimulation. Different temperatures can heighten the experience by stimulating your partner’s nervous system. For a warming effect, use hot massage stones (be mindful of their temperature). For a cooling effect, try aloe vera gel that has been refrigerated. Playing around with different textures will also add extra sensation to the massage. You can use feathers, silk scarves, and soft brushes. 

It’s about you and your partner where the massage will lead. You can leave it at that, taking turns on one another, or use it as a form of foreplay to get things started in the bedroom.

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