This popular position is a great way to spice up oral sex. Face sitting (AKA Queening) is a kinky way for the receiving partner to take control of their orgasm. Typically, the bottom partner lies down while the top partner straddles their face. While this may sound a little dangerous, the receiving partner is not placing their whole weight on top of their partner, instead, they are hovering over their partner’s mouth. So you can enjoy a mind-blowing orgasm from face sitting, without worrying about squishing your partner!

If you want to add a sexy twist to your next oral sex session, here’s how to face-sit like a pro.

1. Establish Safe Words

With any kink play, establishing a verbal safe word first and foremost is a must. Although, with face sitting, it’s a good idea to have a nonverbal safe word as backup, considering that your partner won’t be able to speak. If he needs a breather, try incorporating a “three taps technique” on your partner’s thigh.

2. Hygiene Prep

With face sitting, your partner’s nose will literally be all up in your business. You want to freshen up before the other person’s face is so up close and personal. Practice good personal hygiene with a rinse or a shower to wash up the sweat and odour of the day. If you’re in a bind and can’t get to either, feminine wipes you can keep in your handbag will come in handy here.

3. Get Into Position

Begin with the bottom partner lying on their back (preferably on a supportive surface like a bed). Then, to get into position, the top partner climbs on top by placing one knee on either side of their partner’s face. While straddling their face, use your thigh muscles to hover over their mouth, as resting your whole body weight will restrict their breathing more than necessary. You can decide which direction you prefer facing, whether forward-facing or backwards-facing, feel free to experiment. Once you’re positioned, the bottom part can commence with oral sex as usual and you can grind away.

4. Get Comfortable

If you need support with your balance, consider gripping the headboard or leaning forward to rest on your elbows. Since the partner on top maintains the control, adjust your position to find the most comfortable angle for riding the bottom partner’s face. Meanwhile, the bottom partner can adjust pressure by pulling you closer or gently pushing you away as desired.

Pro Tip: Once you have finished sitting on your partner’s face, be mindful when you dismount to avoid hitting them in the face.

5. Bring In The Sex Toys

If you want extra stimulation while face sitting, many sex toys can be bought into the bedroom to take things to another level. The top partner (if they’re a vulva owner) can use a vibrator on their clit while their partner is performing oral. The bottom partner can also continue performing cunnilingus while using a dildo or a butt plug on their partner.

6. The “One-Knee”

We get it, sitting on someone’s face might not feel like the most natural thing to do. If it’s your first-time face sitting and you don’t want to completely commit to the act, you can ease in with the “one knee” approach. This approach is where you have one knee up while in the squatting position. This way, you can be assured that your weight is not on your partner and their breathing is in no way compromised.

Now that you know how to face-sit like a pro, try out this sex position the next time you’re getting frisky!

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